The Oar Steak and Seafood Grill

4.8

819 Reviews

$30 and under

Seafood

Make a reservation

2 people

Feb 17, 2025

7:00 PM

Booked 8 times today

Experiences are available.

Great for live music
Great for creative cocktails
Neighborhood gem

Casual waterfront dining right on the docks of the Patchogue River, The Oar serves up fresh and delicious steaks and seafood. Chefs prepare specialties like coconut shrimp, 36 oz sizzling prime porterhouse, lobster quesadillas and fresh Bluepoint oysters and little clams which are delivered daily. Two dining rooms are decorated in traditional nautical style. The front wall in made up of French doors that open onto the water, providing dockside open air seating in warm months and picturesque views of the marina year-round. The rear dining room is elegant with raise panel mahogany, white table clothes and blue and white nautical stripe wall paper. We look forward to accommodating your special occasion in the separate catering room. The restaurant stocks full indoor and outdoor bars so you'll never miss a beautiful night at this fun and entertaining spot.

Order delivery or takeout

Additional information

Dining style
Casual Dining
Price
$30 and under
Cuisines
Seafood, Steak, American
Hours of operation
Mon–Thu, Sun 11:30 am–9:00 pm Fri, Sat 11:30 am–10:00 pm
Phone number
(631) 654-8266
Website
http://www.theoar.com/
Payment options
AMEX, Discover, Mastercard, Visa
Dress code
Casual Dress
Catering
The restaurant offers a private catering facility.
Private party facilities
Please contact us for details.

Location
264 West Avenue, Patchogue, NY 11772
Neighborhood
Patchogue
Cross street
Mulford
Parking details
Private Lot
Entertainment
Live Music WINTER- Friday and Saturday SUMMER- Wednesday - Sunday
Additional
Banquet, Bar/Lounge, Beer, Cocktails, Full Bar, Happy Hour, Patio/Outdoor Dining, Private Room, Takeout, View, Wheelchair Access, Wine

Experiences

Live Music at The Oar
Multiple dates available
Join us for live music here at The Oar every Friday & Saturday night starting at 6:30pm.

PEI Sautéed Mussels$18.00
white or marinara
Coconut Shrimp$18.00
orange horseradish marmalade
Crispy Fried Calamari$18.00
served with marinara
Caprese$17.00
fresh mozzarella, beefsteak tomato, basil, EVOO, & balsamic glaze
Skillet Mussels$18.00
sizzling mussels with sea salt, olive oil, & fresh lemon
Chicken Wings$15.00
Buffalo hot sauce or salt & vinegar
Lobster Wontons$18.00
fresh herbs, cream cheese & lobster with pickled ginger, Asian & hoisin sauce
The Oar's Baked Clams$16.00
chopped clams, garlic, wine, bacon & breadcrumbs
Oysters Rockefeller$20.00
creamy spinach, bacon & melted gruyere
Lobster Roll Sliders$30.00
fresh lobster salad on a toasted bun

Raw Bar

Clams on the Half Shell**
- 1/2 Dozen$14.00
- Dozen$24.00
Oysters on the Half Shell**
- 1/2 Dozen$18.00
- Dozen$32.00
Shrimp Cocktail$18.00
Colossal Shrimp Cocktail$52.00
15 jumbo shrimp served in a martini glass
Tuna Tartare**$20.00
avocado, ginger, sesame oil, soy, & scallions

Soups

Manhattan Clam Chowder$11.00
French Onion au Gratin$10.00
Seafood Bisque$12.00

Salads

Add to any salad: chicken $8 | shrimp $12 | NY Strip steak* $14 | scallops $12

Classic Caesar$12.00
romaine lettuce, garlic croutons, & parmesan
Grilled Shrimp & Avocado Salad$26.00
power greens, cucumber, tomato, onions, feta crumbles, champagne vinaigrette
Classic Wedge$14.00
iceberg lettuce, bacon bits, red onion, tomato, homemade blue cheese dressing
Pepper Seared Ahi Tuna Salad**$24.00
mixed greens, shredded cabbage, cherry tomatoes, scallions, mandarin oranges, ginger & citrus vinaigrette with a Thai slaw

Entrées

Penne alla Vodka$21.00
plum tomatoes, cream, fresh herbs, & prosciutto
16 oz. French Cut Pork Chop$34.00
bourbon glaze & grilled peaches with potato
Oven Roasted Duck$32.00
half of a roasted duck with a barrel aged bourbon maple glaze
Lobster Rigatoni$42.00
oven roasted cherry tomato, baby spinach, garlic, extra virgin olive oil, & cognac cream finished with white truffle oil
Half Roasted Chicken$29.00
topped with grilled pineapple, jalapeño & tequila salsa with potato

From the Grill

We proudly only serve certified angus beef. Add to Any Steak: lobster tail - market price

Certified Angus Beef Oar Burger*$24.00
8 oz. grilled sirloin, sautéed onions, & bacon; choice of American, Swiss, or mozzarella
8 oz. Prime Filet Mignon*$58.00
center cut with a red wine veal demi-glace
14 oz. Prime NY Strip Steak*$54.00
marinade or plain

From the Sea

Sesame Seared Tuna*$36.00
topped with cucumber wasabi salsa over lemon grass coconut jasmine rice
Pan Seared Chilean Sea Bass$39.00
over mashed potatoes with Thai slaw
Seafood Fra Diavolo$42.00
mussels, clams, shrimp, and scallops with fresh tomato & basil over linguini
Beer Battered Fish & Chips$29.00
fresh cod, French fries, & tartar sauce
Tuscan Baked Salmon$34.00
topped with chilled caramelized onions, sundried tomatoes, capers & fresh basil over oven roasted zucchini, squash & bell pepper
Pan Roasted Swordfish$35.00
over sweet corn & parmesan risotto with citrus beurre blanc

What 819 people are saying

Overall ratings and reviews

Reviews can only be made by diners who have eaten at this restaurant

4.8

4.8 based on recent ratings

4.7Food
4.8Service
4.7Ambience
4.5Value

Noise • Moderate

Loved For

New York State
Hot spot
Suffolk
Hot spot
Suffolk
Great for fine wines
Suffolk
Great for outdoor dining
Suffolk
Seafood

Review summary

AI-generated from verified diner reviews

The Oar Steak and Seafood Grill offers a charming waterfront dining experience with a "fantastic dining experience and night out with friends" and "wonderful service." Guests rave about the "hearty portions" of seafood dishes like lobster rigatoni and seafood Fra Diavolo. The lively atmosphere, enhanced by live music and attentive staff, makes every visit memorable.

819 Reviews

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stephen
New York City
1 review
5.0
1 review
Dined 2 days ago
1. Overall 5
2. Food 5
3. Service 5
4. Ambience 5
The best seafood fra Diavlo I have every had. Baked clams were outstanding. My wife asked for the prime rib special well done end cut and got exactly what she ordered. The waiter was very good, food was hot and served in a timely fashion
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Mandi
New York City
20 reviews
4.0
20 reviews
Dined on February 1, 2025
1. Overall 4
2. Food 4
3. Service 5
4. Ambience 5
Food and service was amazing the noise level was overwhelming. I like that they have live music but I feel like they don’t have to make the music sooo loud that people are yelling across tables to talk
The Oar Steak and Seafood GrillResponded on February 3, 2025
Thank you for your kind words about our food and service! We’re glad you enjoyed your experience but understand that the noise level can be a concern. We truly appreciate your feedback and will take it into consideration to ensure all our guests can enjoy both the live music and their conversations. We hope to welcome you back again soon!
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Lynn
New York City
1 review
5.0
1 review
Dined on February 1, 2025
1. Overall 5
2. Food 5
3. Service 5
4. Ambience 4
Went for Restaurant week yesterday. Started with the grilled octopus and grilled sea scallops over sautéed greens. Delicious! Our entrees were pork ossobuco and grilled haddock . The haddock was served over a barley risotto. Both dishes were cooked perfectly. Nice sized portions. I almost didn’t order the haddock because it was described in the menu as served with “ barley with black bean, ricotta & mozzarella”, which sounded weird to me. The server’s description was spot on, so I gave it a try. So glad that I did! Should be a regular addition to the menu. Would highly recommend this restaurant if you haven’t already tried it.
The Oar Steak and Seafood GrillResponded on February 3, 2025
We're so glad to hear that you enjoyed Long Island Restaurant Week with us! We hope to see you back again soon to try something from our regular menu!
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norman
New York City
1 review
5.0
1 review
Dined on February 1, 2025
1. Overall 5
2. Food 5
3. Service 5
4. Ambience 5
Food and service was fantastic. 10/10 would recommend
The Oar Steak and Seafood GrillResponded 7 days ago
Thanks for dining with us!
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Lea
New York City
3 reviews
5.0
3 reviews
Dined on January 26, 2025
1. Overall 5
2. Food 5
3. Service 5
4. Ambience 5
My sister and I were there yesterday, Sunday, next to the full bar crowd who were watching a football game but we were able to talk without raising our voices. Our server, Cindy, was lovely and attentive. The food : we shared baked clams and lobster wontons and I had the Manhattan clam chowder all of which were delicious. The cocktails were wonderful also. We look forward to going back again soon.
The Oar Steak and Seafood GrillResponded on January 30, 2025
Your review is appreciated. We're glad you enjoyed the food and service at The Oar Steak & Seafood Grille. Looking forward to welcoming you back soon!
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Eric
New York City
734 reviews
5.0
734 reviews
Dined on January 24, 2025
1. Overall 5
2. Food 5
3. Service 5
4. Ambience 5
A fantastic dining experience and night out with friends!! The Oar is always on point and delivers with excellent eats. We started with the baked clams, mussels and fried calamari which were all cooked perfectly and full of flavor. The mains of short ribs, NY strip, filet and chicken pot pie were outstanding and bursting with mouth-watering yumminess. Two thumbs for Nicole who made the evening superb. Her top notch friendly service truly added to our evening. We look forward to our next visit and her company!!!
The Oar Steak and Seafood GrillResponded on January 27, 2025
Thank you for your review! We are thrilled to hear about your fantastic dining experience at The Oar Steak & Seafood Grille. We appreciate your kind words and look forward to welcoming you back soon.
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Kristine
New York City
1 review
5.0
1 review
Dined on December 24, 2024
1. Overall 5
2. Food 5
3. Service 5
4. Ambience 5
The food and service was phenomenal! Had an amazing time and our server Jessica was the absolute best!! Would highly recommend this restaurant!!
The Oar Steak and Seafood GrillResponded on December 30, 2024
Thank you for the amazing review, Kristine! We look forward to seeing you again soon!
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Rita
New York State
1 review
5.0
1 review
Dined on December 24, 2024
1. Overall 5
2. Food 4
3. Service 5
4. Ambience 5
Wonderful service. Great food. Lovely ambience. Amazing views.
The Oar Steak and Seafood GrillResponded on December 30, 2024
Thank you for dining with us, Rita!
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Jennifer
New York City
2 reviews
5.0
2 reviews
Dined on December 22, 2024
1. Overall 5
2. Food 5
3. Service 5
4. Ambience 5
The food was delicious and our server was outstanding!
The Oar Steak and Seafood GrillResponded on December 23, 2024
Thank you for dining with us! We hope to see you back again soon!
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Peter
VIP
New York City
12 reviews
5.0
12 reviews
Dined on December 18, 2024
1. Overall 5
2. Food 3
3. Service 5
4. Ambience 4
We had reservations but decided to sit and eat at the bar. Vince the bartender was very courteous and attentive with our drinks and meal to the point he deliciously modified our drinks to perfection. As always, the seafood bisque and onion soup were superb. We had ordered the short rib which was a little on the tough side and could have had a little more gravy to compliment it. Otherwise, a great place located on the water who are great hosts to locals, regulars, and first time diners
The Oar Steak and Seafood GrillResponded on December 23, 2024
We appreciate your feedback about your recent visit and we hope to see you back again soon!
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FAQs

The Oar Steak and Seafood Grill offers takeout which you can order by calling the restaurant at (631) 654-8266.

The Oar Steak and Seafood Grill is rated 4.8 stars by 819 OpenTable diners.

Yes, you can generally book this restaurant by choosing the date, time and party size on OpenTable.

Make a reservation

2 people

Feb 17, 2025

7:00 PM

Booked 8 times today

Experiences are available.

Order delivery or takeout

Google Map for The Oar Steak and Seafood Grill

264 West Avenue, Patchogue, NY 11772

Additional information

Cross street
Mulford
Neighborhood
Patchogue
Hours of operation
Mon–Thu, Sun 11:30 am–9:00 pm Fri, Sat 11:30 am–10:00 pm
Price
$30 and under
Cuisines
Seafood, Steak, American
Dining style
Casual Dining
Dress code
Casual Dress
Parking details
Private Lot
Payment options
AMEX, Discover, Mastercard, Visa
Entertainment
Live Music WINTER- Friday and Saturday SUMMER- Wednesday - Sunday
Additional
Banquet, Bar/Lounge, Beer, Cocktails, Full Bar, Happy Hour, Patio/Outdoor Dining, Private Room, Takeout, View, Wheelchair Access, Wine

Website
http://www.theoar.com/
Phone number
(631) 654-8266
Catering
The restaurant offers a private catering facility.
Private party facilities
Please contact us for details.

The Oar Steak and Seafood Grill

Make a reservation

Order delivery or takeout

Additional information

Live Music at The Oar

Appetizers

PEI Sautéed Mussels$18.00

Coconut Shrimp$18.00

Crispy Fried Calamari$18.00

Caprese$17.00

Skillet Mussels$18.00

Chicken Wings$15.00

Lobster Wontons$18.00

The Oar's Baked Clams$16.00

Oysters Rockefeller$20.00

Lobster Roll Sliders$30.00

Raw Bar

Clams on the Half Shell**

Oysters on the Half Shell**

Shrimp Cocktail$18.00

Colossal Shrimp Cocktail$52.00

Tuna Tartare**$20.00

Soups

Manhattan Clam Chowder$11.00

French Onion au Gratin$10.00

Seafood Bisque$12.00

Salads

Classic Caesar$12.00

Grilled Shrimp & Avocado Salad$26.00

Classic Wedge$14.00

Pepper Seared Ahi Tuna Salad**$24.00

Entrées

Penne alla Vodka$21.00

16 oz. French Cut Pork Chop$34.00

Oven Roasted Duck$32.00

Lobster Rigatoni$42.00

Half Roasted Chicken$29.00

From the Grill

Certified Angus Beef Oar Burger*$24.00

8 oz. Prime Filet Mignon*$58.00

14 oz. Prime NY Strip Steak*$54.00

From the Sea

Sesame Seared Tuna*$36.00

Pan Seared Chilean Sea Bass$39.00

Seafood Fra Diavolo$42.00

Beer Battered Fish & Chips$29.00

Tuscan Baked Salmon$34.00

Pan Roasted Swordfish$35.00

Overall ratings and reviews

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Review summary

FAQs

Does The Oar Steak and Seafood Grill offer delivery through OpenTable or takeout?

How is The Oar Steak and Seafood Grill restaurant rated?

Is The Oar Steak and Seafood Grill currently accepting reservations?

Make a reservation

Order delivery or takeout

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